Unlike most step-parenting guides, this book offers a refreshingly frank and positive perspective on raising step-children, advocating, for example, that these children be viewed not as intruders but as individuals with unitque characteristics, needs, and gifts.  Such views, coupled with Felker’s skillful re-working of classic-rearing theory into easy-to-understand and practical advice, will be welcomed not only by foster and adoptive families, but re-married parents, school personnel, social workers, and church counselors.