“tells shared experiences of reunited adoptees and their birth family members.
Barbara Gonyo tells of the relinquishment of her son and her search to keep her silent promise to him that she would someday find him.
Barbara shares her feelings of a love she discovers that breaks the taboo of family love and brings on feelings that left unchecked would become incest.
In her twenty two years of leading an adoption support group, her honesty in sharing these feelings have brought hundreds of other reunited adoptees and birthparents and siblings to her asking for help in resolving these forbidden feelings of bonding.” The warmth of love mingled with the feelings of guilt and shame are openly discussed.