“Virtually all adopted children report intense longing for information about their early days or months. Cindy Probst has done a tremendous service to adoptive parents and children alike with this sensitive and practical guide. By helping parents acknowledge the difficult emotions surfaced in this process as well as by providing practical tips for how to document our children’s first months even when little or no apparent information exists, Probst will help a generation of children find some of the answers to their questions. This is a book no adoptive family should be without.” — Susan Caughman, Publisher, Adoptive Families Magazine